tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5312159882790612546.post1613409081584814203..comments2023-11-02T08:41:44.231-07:00Comments on The Sanctuary: Male and female He created themSpacetravellerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02202131232540121117noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5312159882790612546.post-61687878986344240842012-01-05T08:09:18.023-08:002012-01-05T08:09:18.023-08:00Men need to simply be men, good and tough, like th...Men need to simply be men, good and tough, like they were for centuries. That's what attracts.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04905272108326085380noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5312159882790612546.post-25537784784528529692012-01-05T06:07:10.096-08:002012-01-05T06:07:10.096-08:00Thank you, Handlingtheredpill!
Yes, I do mean by ...Thank you, Handlingtheredpill!<br /><br />Yes, I do mean by nature.<br /><br />This is the premise (learned from a wise old man) that helped shape my thoughts on this matter:<br /><br />'Men will do whatever it takes for frequent and convenient access to sex'. <br />Whether that means an ltr or frequent ons with different women - depends on his choice.<br /><br />There is method to the madness. Because men are logical.<br />When access to women required marriage, men married. Being 'nice' was an asset in the good old days. PUA was a peripheral phenomenon.<br />Then feminism flipped the script and changed women (who gladly changed their nature/behaviour with no clear benefit to themselves!) and suddenly for men, the 'Be nice, be yourself' advice was no longer working. Now PUA is mainstream.<br />I don't think men have changed in their nature at all, on the whole. They have simply adapted their behaviour to suit their needs (and this is something women can learn from men). So I agree they are reactionary, but this is due to their sense of logic/common sense.<br />Incidentally, I also don't believe that men care too much how they get to the goal. The important thing is to get there. So if Game is supplicating to some degree, who cares. It gets them the girl at the end of the day. (I heard somewhere that men are more focussed on the destination, women more on the journey. This may be a gross generalisation...) <br />But I guess all humans have a tendency to get curious about why things work and why they don't at some point...Spacetravellerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02202131232540121117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5312159882790612546.post-70647825267787980542012-01-05T05:23:38.680-08:002012-01-05T05:23:38.680-08:00Excellent blog. I like your concise descriptions o...Excellent blog. I like your concise descriptions of femininity and masculinity.<br /><br />'Men on the other hand are solidly stable. No swings to the right or left of any scale. He is what he is. Masculine. That's it.' <br /><br />Do you mean by nature? <br /><br />I assume you are aware of this when you speak of the necessity of 'game' in another post, but a lot of males today are socially conditioned (nurtured) to be more feminine by the education system , media and parents (who are themselves affected by the former two. )<br /><br />Some men grow up with conflicted guilt for their masculine instincts . Masculinity, or being simple , is discouraged and in some cases condemned.This is where 'game' and 'red pill' blogs come into the picture. They are, indeed, reactionary. Interestingly their complexity reflects the subject they study : women. <br /><br />There are anti-game people who argue that game yields to the complex female frame and is therefore supplicatory . Unmanly . On the other hand, with a lot of practice and deprogramming it can ,according to reports, become natural(simple) and in tune with innate masculinity. Over-analysis(complexity) is a common problem for those who discover this information.<br /><br />Just a few thoughts .Handlingtheredpillnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5312159882790612546.post-33903579924962834772012-01-05T01:20:25.158-08:002012-01-05T01:20:25.158-08:00Jennifer,
Welcome.
Yes, the little tyrantess is (t...Jennifer,<br />Welcome.<br />Yes, the little tyrantess is (thankfully) not completely out of control. But her strong personality is unmistakeable.<br /><br />I meant simple in the sense of uncomplicated. Straightforward. <br />I totally cosign that they indeed are brilliant and deep human beings. That's why we love 'em so much :-)Spacetravellerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02202131232540121117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5312159882790612546.post-26973158539156287712012-01-04T22:43:47.207-08:002012-01-04T22:43:47.207-08:00This is SO awesome! I love those kids; they all ha...This is SO awesome! I love those kids; they all have their strength (though I hope big Dad does put his foot down to little Chieftaness; otherwise she'll be a nightmare in a few years). But, I disagree that men are simple; maybe they're not like us, not like a vertigo-inducing labyrinth, but they're brilliant, and deep human beings.Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04905272108326085380noreply@blogger.com